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It should be clear what are we going to talk about in this article: about the real women friendship, which, according to men, doesn‘t exist. They lie - it exists. And the strength of this kind of friendship depends on us.
We aquire our first friends in our early childhood. We play in a sandbox together, and bring the kindergarten nannys to tears. During our first years in school, girls avoid each other and try to continue their kindergarten friendships instead. Later, however, our circle of friends widens drastically, but we usually stay loyal to our old friends.
In our childhood, we don‘t pay much attention to the social and intellectual inequality between us and our aquaintances, making friends according to our heart‘s wishes. Sometimes, even our own parents take the initiative to dissolve our friendships, wanting that their daughter would befriend other girls according to their own, or higher, social standing. Of course, some of the girls don‘t care for friendships of convenience, so they rebel and befriend whomever they want anyway.
More than ten years in school brings us the joy of happy breaks, intense studying, first love and first class-skippings. We come through all of these things together with our classmates, which brings us closer to them in terms of friendship, so we continue to communicate outside the confines of our school. We find best friends among our classmates, and later on we are pround to know them since our first form.
But here comes the graduation, and we become separated form our former friends by jobs or different colleges as our lives in these „academic factories“ begin to take shape. We make new aquaintances and numerous fresh impressions, and want to share them with our old friends, but... studies and jobs eat up so much time, and sometimes we can‘t even spare time for our beloved ones. And once we finally meet our friends after months of silence, lack of time and abscence of regular communication can bring us to a bone-chilling realisation that we don‘t have what to say to each other.
As soon as you enter the „adult“ years, you‘re being brought face to face with the cruel realities of modern life. But the question is, how can you and your friends cope with it, and perhaps adapt to it. Can you understandingly or at least neutrally react to a situation when your friend Jane enjoys the company of an ideal boyfriend, who is constantlyall her time, while you are lonely and need friends to support you. Marie and Angie had a conflict when Marie fell madly in love and ceased to pay attention to her friend. Angie got jealous and in the end the two friends went apart after a severe verbal conflict.
Sharply appears material aspect as well, the same, to which in the childhood we spat from the height of our identical trowels and small molds. Indeed in the children sandbox reigns absolute equality. Let us assume you could find the job and it proved to be much better paid than the one of your friends’. Won’t you look at her “from the heights”? Won’t she be envy of your salary?
Victoria and Valerie ended their relations precisely for th...
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