How Do U Dump Someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Total results: 17 Pages: 1 [ 1] |
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 ID: 190831 Posts: 383 | Date: 2007-04-27 06:06 how do u do it tactifully without hurting feelings and getting
cursed???????????????? |
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 ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-27 18:13 I dont know.. first guy i dumped.. i got shoved into a relationship with. a few
classes later i just walked up to him and went your dumped.
I didnt know how to dump someone... i hadnt even kissed a boy haha
ooopsies  Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me  |
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 ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-27 18:18 It all depends on the relationship...try not to use the its me not you line
because that translates into its sooo you...there is no easy way to dump
someone...I suppose the best way to do it is to tell them that you need to talk
and at least then they are expecting something negative so it's less of a shock
to the system...then in as nice a way possible tell him that things aren't
working out and you feel it is time to break up...never mention seeing other
people though because again that says to most people...well I'm bored of you and
I have someone else waiting for me to break up with you so I can get with them
sort of thing...and my advice her is probably crap...with the exception of once
I have always been the one being dumped We Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
We Take Risks To Prevent Life Escaping Us!! |
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ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-27 18:27 Oh wait i did dump someone properly!
Me and my fiance werent working out properly and basically i turned around to
him and like talked him into it bit by bit.
And disscussed with him why it werent working. I had even said that part its not
you its me, but it worked.. although me and him are still good matesHowdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me |
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| Date: 2007-04-27 18:33 i cant say that i properly dumped someone. a boyfriend i had been dating i was
so bored and ready to move on but i wanted to be nice about it. i kept dropping
hints that i wasnt happy with the relationship but apparently he didnt
understand them.. eventually i just told him it wasnt working anymore.. he was
upset and didnt understand why.. i felt really bad about it |
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 ID: 167467 Posts: 414 | Date: 2007-04-27 19:54 Hmm... First guy I dumped, it's just like, "Hey, let's be friends..."
The second, "I don't think I can be your girlf..."
The third, this time I got dumped but he didn't want to talk to me so I made the
situation clear about him and me.
The fourth, we got a huge fight and I just said it, "I guess we should break
up."
The fifth, he tried to touch my boobies and I slapped him on his face. The day
after, I called him and said that I guess we should have broken up....I'm looking for a model who wants to work as one only for a piece of dress...
But seriously! If you do, please contact me. |
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| Date: 2007-04-28 08:55 uhm.. i dumped my ex like.. we met.. then i started crying.. saying i was gonna
be unfair to him if i dont break up with him and like i said i was wrong.. haha
i didnt hear from him eversince..  |
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ID: 190831 Posts: 383 | Date: 2007-04-30 09:09 it seems like its only the ladies talking. wats with the gents??? we want to
hear ur vieews |
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 ID: 189741 Posts: 214 | Date: 2007-04-30 09:12 haha the way gents left me? Normally cheated on me, they always got with someone
else while with me then later went something like" we gotta talk"
men i just dont get them Live life to the max and never look back!
People are less likely to let their fears win,
When they can do what they want when they try. |
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 ID: 183020 Posts: 266 | Date: 2007-04-30 15:39 the best way to dump a guy is by putting yourself in his shoes, dump him the way
you'd want to be dumped. its not an easy job. sexy |
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 ID: 182744 Posts: 1528 | Date: 2007-05-05 22:35 How to dump someone?
Each dumping has been unique to the circumstance. The first girl I broke up with
wouldn't listen to me. A man is not built to have sex four times a day, seven
days a week. That's like equivalent to 10,000 push ups. She wouldn't let me
alone. I tied a bandage around it, told her I spilled boiling water on it and
needed six weeks to heal. During that six weeks I moved and got a new phone
number. She sent her brothers to find me and drag me to her house. I told her
that I had been avoiding her because I got my cousin preganat and did not know
how to tell her without hurting her feelings. One little white
lie and I was out of that relationship for good. (And no...my cousin was not
pregnant for me!)
My most recent breakup was over the language barrier. She spoke no English, even
after being in this country for two years. She worked at a restaurant as a
waitress and never even learned to pronounce the menu in English. I speak good
Spanish and was trying to teach her English. I was getting more and more
frustrated at always having to translate for her. Yes, the sex was good, very
good as she was anxious to please, but I realized I could not deal with someone
who would not at least try to integrate into the culture she had moved to. I put
down my foot one day and told her either start learning English or I am gone. I
gave her a month without me to show I was serious and ignored her calls when
they showed on caller ID. 30 days later I went to see her. She cried on my
shoulder that not speaking Spanish would betray her heritage. Huh? My great
grandmother is from Spain. I do not believe I have betrayed her by speaking
English. And, no one told her she could not still speak Spanish. I told her that
I was sorry that we could not make this work. She cried, we kissed, I pulled
myself loose and that was that. Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should |
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| Date: 2007-05-06 18:04 There's
no real foolproof method for breaking up with someone. It takes guts, it's
usually messy, and there's rarely a guy who after being dumped won't refer to
his ex as 'the bitch' in at least one sentence. But honestly, if he does that..
good for him. If after asking why he thinks badly of you, he tells people you're
his ex, they'd be dumb to believe him blindly. |
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 ID: 155195 Posts: 478 | Date: 2008-07-08 10:10 Both parties has to sit and discuss it out.
You trash out why you think you should let the relationship go and if those
reasons are genuine, i'm sure the guy or girl will understand. I know there is
no break up thats not hurting, but at least, they'll both deal with it
maturely.
Libby |
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 ID: 247404 Posts: 151 | Date: 2008-07-08 10:17 maturity is the key. Do it in person,. not e-mail phone, text that kinda thing.
Sit with the person and discuss the issues and hand. Maybe you can work thourgh
maybe you cant. |
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 ID: 237093 Posts: 1155 | Date: 2008-07-08 10:49 Dump someone without hurting them... hard one to do as anyone being dumped will
feel a little hurt, best to be honest rather than having to lie about your
feelings |
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 ID: 666 Posts: 98 | Date: 2008-07-08 12:49 Agree with Gary. Just do it honestly and quickly get over it.
Although the solution "I think we need some time apart" is much easier to do.Part of jurgita.com administration team. |
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 ID: 246345 Posts: 439 | Date: 2008-07-13 15:52 Tell him about your feelings and about hurt him.....I dont thick someone who is
dumped is verry happy |
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