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 ID: 167467 Posts: 510 | Date: 2007-04-27 10:43 In my country, sex b4 marriage is a sin... Is it....?Visit my website! It's HERE  |
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 ID: 179376 Posts: 841 | Date: 2007-04-27 13:54 Yes,
In most religons this is a major belief.
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 ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-27 18:00 My country is so diverse with different religions.. i guess it just is a belief
in it..
Alot is based on the old traditions of marriage when they were getting married
at like the age of 12.
They didnt want there new wifes to be "tainted" as in them not having their
child.
Alot of that has changed in cultures now.
Not everyone.. but there are alot that are having sex at a very young age.Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me  |
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 ID: 146728 Posts: 91 | Date: 2007-04-27 21:12 Very much a circular argument, if you believe morality is given by your religion
and it is infallible, this is what it says and you wish to follow your religion,
then yes.
Many people would totally oppose this view in other religions let alone
atheists.
Problem is many things are open to interpretation let alone the question is your
religion infallible.
For instance I know that Islam gave strong rights to women but because it has
been adopted by many patriarchal cultures it has been misinterpreted and certain
parts ignored to perpetuate patriarchal power.
The only person that can answer this question is you since you are the only one
who can say how strongly you identify and interpret this religion. |
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 ID: 154201 Posts: 187 | Date: 2007-04-27 23:38 Tricky question. |
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| Date: 2007-04-28 09:30 It is a sin in my religion.. but it has become accepted in the society in a
way.. |
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 ID: 183020 Posts: 267 | Date: 2007-04-28 09:44 it is not a sin if it is done after marriage. but it is a sin if you do it
before you are married.although most people think you are weird if you dont have
sex before marriage.sexy |
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| Date: 2007-04-30 19:16 in many countries that was the norm
and even in the U.S . in the early days of our country
that was the norm and many people believed that sex before marriage
was a sin before God ! But sad to say not any more. |
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| Date: 2007-04-30 20:01 hmmm....thats a toughy, according to many beliefs , it is..... but noone is
perfect, if it makes u feel like, u know, that that is not ur style, then dont
do it, i forget teh mans name in the bible, but it is wise teaching anyhow: if u
have to have sex that bad, get married. good advice considering all the diseases
floating about, sure there are many not discovered or being exposed to the world
right now |
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 ID: 190831 Posts: 383 | Date: 2007-05-01 05:07 yes sex before marriage is definately a sin. am a christian and the 10
commandments talk abt not fornicating |
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 ID: 191576 Posts: 11 | Date: 2007-05-01 05:30 religiously spoken / practice - ITS A SIN..  .. anyway..
regardless of its a sin or not.. as long as both wanna have it.. and taking
precautious steps to have it "safe" and "fun" .. i guess its ok..  but
of coz.. the best is after u got married to each other ... hehe.. |
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ID: 190831 Posts: 383 | Date: 2007-05-01 06:25 its always best if you r married to each other no doubt |
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 ID: 183878 Posts: 1184 | Date: 2007-05-01 09:45 It's a tool that religions use to get you to accept their rules.
Sex is as natural a function as breathing, eating and going to the toilet. As a
natural function it has its pros and cons. It all depends on how you view your
risks of pregnancy or catching a disease.
You can learn what to avoid and what precautions to take, but the risks remain.
Just like it is safer not to drive anywhere, it is safer not to have sex--but
can you enjoy life walking when everyone else is zooming by?
Everything has risks.If I haven't been there, I'm still planning on going!
If I haven't done it, I've still got time to try! |
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 ID: 189228 Posts: 294 | Date: 2007-05-02 13:06 I think Charles covered what I had to say.
As for my opinion, no, I do not feel it's a sin.Everything I've done, and all that I have yet to do, is only to forget the meaning of your name. |
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| Date: 2007-05-02 16:06 Mercy, the 10 commandments don't say anything about not fornicating, they say
that 'thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife' - ie. don't take someone else's
spouse away from them.
I was raised Roman Catholic and I have never for a second believed that sex is a
sin, whether before or after marriage.
See, if sex is a sin, then all the separated people in my country are sinners,
because their government won't introduce divorce just so that they won't lose a
lot of votes come election time. When a marriage breaks down because the people
find out they can't be together 'till death do you part', the only option here
in Malta is separation - unless you have a lot of time and money to waste
waiting for an anullment[I think the last estimate was 7 yrs from filing for
anullment to the ruling], or a lot of money so you can get a divorce from
abroad. In other words, unless you're one of the rare rich, you're stuck with
separation. So if you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life
with after making the mistake of marrying the wrong person, you can't marry them
because oh what do you know! you're only separated, you have no right to
marry someone else! Which means there are many many cohabiting couples in
my country. Is it wrong for them to have sex, to perform the ultimate act of
love together, just because they had the incredible bad luck of settling for
Mr/Ms I-thought-you-were-the-one-but-you're-not? I don't think so.
*breathe*
And then of course there's the whole 'sex before marriage' issue. Once again I'm
going to say that I would never marry someone I won't get on well with in bed. I
had a relationship with a guy, and there was lots of unsatisfactory sex, and
that definitely created problems. I don't want to imagine being married to a man
with the same problems!
It's all subject to opinion of course. What I say is, don't go believing that
it's wrong because everyone says so, believe that it's wrong because it goes
against your own principles, and not anyone else's. Never let other
people dictate your personal life!
*steps off soapbox*
Course, then it depends on your definition of 'sin'  |
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 ID: 155195 Posts: 696 | Date: 2008-07-08 10:26 Its a sin in my country. they beleive a woman has to be married before having
sex, but some people follow that while some don't.
I think it s a personal decidion and determination. Also you closeness to God
Libby |
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 ID: 247404 Posts: 151 | Date: 2008-07-08 10:31 Sex before marriage should happen.
How do you know if you and your new spouse will be sexually compatible! |
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 ID: 223398 Posts: 537 | Date: 2008-07-10 13:26 i dont agree with it but in my country they say you should not have sex before
marriage but not much do itKimberley  |
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 ID: 237093 Posts: 1798 | Date: 2008-07-10 13:47 Hardly anyone in the UK ever gets married these days, sex isn't a sin! it's a
personal choice if you do it before marriage or not if you decide to get
married
I don't consider anything a sin, I'm not religious! |
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 ID: 246345 Posts: 607 | Date: 2008-07-13 15:47 To kill, to lie, to take something that is not yours....this are sins, but love
is come from God and is not important if is b4 marriage or after....important
that is have to be LOVE |
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