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Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
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Date: 2007-05-01 07:09
how do u deal with a crush or a infatuation on someone u cant have>>>???????????????????????????

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Date: 2007-05-01 12:00
oh gooooood.
back away and QUICK.

infatuations with people you cant have not good- what do you mean you cant have them tho and i might have more to help with??

Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
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Posts: 1738
Date: 2007-05-01 16:48
Simple answer: Masturbation.
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

Diamond A.
Diamond A.
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Date: 2007-05-01 16:52
..just cope

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Date: 2007-05-01 16:53
.. i'd like to know the answer to this question aswell.. i've convinced myself i'm in love with someone i cant have.. aboo:cantlook:
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"And she said 'Don't let it go to your head. Boys like you are a dime a dozen'..the truth is: You could slit my throat and with my one last gasping breath, I'd appologize for bleeding on your shirt." -You are so last summer, Taking Back Sunday.

Stijn Vd Weel
Stijn Vd Weel
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Date: 2007-05-01 17:50
why can't you 'have' that someone...?

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Date: 2007-05-01 17:54
for me i cant have him.. because he just got out of a year long relationship. Also he is unsure as to where he will be living in the next month. He wants to get his life together and get a decent job to start paying off his school loans before getting into a relationship again.

Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
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Date: 2007-05-02 02:19
Kimberly Shaver:

.. i'd like to know the answer to this question aswell.. i've convinced myself i'm in love with someone i cant have.. aboo:cantlook:
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"And she said 'Don't let it go to your head. Boys like you are a dime a dozen'..the truth is: You could slit my throat and with my one last gasping breath, I'd appologize for bleeding on your shirt." -You are so last summer, Taking Back Sunday.


Stijn Vd Weel:

why can't you 'have' that someone...?


Kimberly Shaver:

for me i cant have him.. because he just got out of a year long relationship. Also he is unsure as to where he will be living in the next month. He wants to get his life together and get a decent job to start paying off his school loans before getting into a relationship again.


Ahhh, yeah, listen to him. Do not get into a relationship with him. Do not pursue him. Sucks, yes. Hurts like hell, yes, but you know something? You are very, very, very, VERY young. You have a lot more people to be infatuated with before you settle down.

I was a teenager too and yep, I still remember how bitter and unbearable the sting is of not being able to have someone that your heart fixates upon. There is no cure for the pain. Just engross yourself in other things. Find activities with other people. Try to forget.

But whatever you do, do NOT force a relationship on a male who says he is not ready. The final outcome is not pretty.

Or put it another way: Do you wish to be the second hand goods? The rebound girl? The beer I drank instead of champagne? The tape that holds the reading glasses together until a new pair can be bought?
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

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Date: 2007-05-01 21:49
.. yeah ..i know. I deffinately know there is more fish in the sea. and i am most deffinately Not forcing anything on him and that is why we arent together.. but of course the pain is still unbearable.. its like a massive hole in your heart that will never be repaired.. like a huge part of me is missing.

But i know that life goes on. It's kind of one of the reasons why i got into modeling.. to focus on something else i love to get my mind off of things :)

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Date: 2007-05-02 00:19
uhm find some1 you can have. or try to have that person

Angel Cumbersom
Angel Cumbersom
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Date: 2007-05-02 12:46
Find something better to do with your time and realize that life is not all about sex.
There's a bigger world out there, take advantage of it while you still can.
Everything I've done, and all that I have yet to do, is only to forget the meaning of your name.

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Date: 2007-05-02 12:47
.. uumm no one every said crushes and being in love was all about sex.

Angel Cumbersom
Angel Cumbersom
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Date: 2007-05-02 13:38
If sex was not in the picture here... then we'd be talking more of a platonic relationship, and she would have asked that.

She has a crush and is infatuated, aka she wants them including for sex, usually the big motivator right there.

Sex, Love, special relationships etc. It's not the end of the world.
A woman with out a man is like a fish with out a bicycle.
Everything I've done, and all that I have yet to do, is only to forget the meaning of your name.

Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
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Date: 2007-05-02 23:24
Angel Cumbersom:

If sex was not in the picture here... then we'd be talking more of a platonic relationship, and she would have asked that.

She has a crush and is infatuated, aka she wants them including for sex, usually the big motivator right there.

Sex, Love, special relationships etc. It's not the end of the world.
A woman with out a man is like a fish with out a bicycle.


No sex, no descendents. A.K.A: The end of the line. End of the world.

Purpose of being attracted to someone: to determine compatability for procreation. Platonic=Neuter

A good relationship is a balance of platonic consciousness mixed with sexual activity to placate our reproductive urges.

Sex isn't a bad thing, just more often abused than not.

If she were thinking platonic she would have said so? That is a poor assumption and likely made based upon a heightened sensitivity towards sexual attitudes.
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-03 07:21
Sarah Eyk:

oh gooooood.
back away and QUICK.

infatuations with people you cant have not good- what do you mean you cant have them tho and i might have more to help with??

well the guy leaves in another city and i leave in anoother. 2 his number has gone off and there is no other way i can contact him. so i basically dont know wat to do. am stuck. any help will be appreciated

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-03 07:24
Diamond A.:

..just cope

how is the question?????????????

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
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Date: 2007-05-03 07:26
Stijn Vd Weel:

why can't you 'have' that someone...?

because they leave in a different city and now their telephone is off so i cant contact them

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-03 07:29
Joan Marq S.:

uhm find some1 you can have. or try to have that person

how do i get to have this person then?????????????

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-03 07:36
Angel Cumbersom:

Find something better to do with your time and realize that life is not all about sex.
There's a bigger world out there, take advantage of it while you still can.

okay something better like?? da question is how do u put this person behind u so u can do other things. how do u achieve dat??????????????????

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-03 07:41
Carib Goodies:

[Angel Cumbersom: ...]

thanks for all ur advice. you seem to be a very experienced person. thanks again. i guess it takes time. coz everyday i wake up, i feel the pain and all.



No sex, no descendents. A.K.A: The end of the line. End of the world.

Purpose of being attracted to someone: to determine compatability for procreation. Platonic=Neuter

A good relationship is a balance of platonic consciousness mixed with sexual activity to placate our reproductive urges.

Sex isn't a bad thing, just more often abused than not.

If she were thinking platonic she would have said so? That is a poor assumption and likely made based upon a heightened sensitivity towards sexual attitudes.

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