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WHY ARE SOME SO AFRAID OF GETTING HURT?

 
 
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Unique Teran
Unique Teran
ID: 196529
Posts: 80
Date: 2007-06-19 05:22
>... Why are some people so afraid of getting hurt,that they rather :dunno:
stay stuck in a relationship with a person that doesn't make them happy, but
only with out of pitty.. I think you should just move on..-> go for it! I mean you
have nothing to loose but to gain...right?
UNIQUE TERAN

Dwayne Foong
Dwayne Foong
ID: 196690
Posts: 58
Date: 2007-06-19 08:10
Well, some are so attached they are afraid of loosing someone close to them.
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Date: 2007-06-19 09:07
I agree with you, but if you're in a relationship for a long time it's hard to see the writing on the wall. It's not always that easy.

Busola F.
Busola F.
ID: 183020
Posts: 267
Date: 2007-06-19 14:11
maybe they are tired of changing partners, so they prefer to stay in the one they are in.
:lips:sexy:lips:

Anna J.
Anna J.
ID: 196440
Posts: 7
Date: 2007-06-19 18:55
They have become apart of your everday, it's almost like breathing....Or learning something for so long and finding out in the end you have to start over... When you invest so much time and yourself into something it's very hard to let go... But if your unhappy and you are withholding yourself and cheating your partner from having all of you... they should except it's only fair for the both. In time people will heal and move on. Love and relationship it's a crazy thing;)

Eyeforanimage
Eyeforanimage
ID: 195571
Posts: 8
Date: 2007-06-19 19:21
It's called a mortgage. :D

Rahirza .
Rahirza .
ID: 197582
Posts: 197
Date: 2007-06-19 21:34
I just closed with this guy for few months till now. & I still not sure what his feeling on. Im afraid to ask and afraid to lose him. I like him very much, but Im not sure whether I love him or perhaps almost on that feeling. Yeah, sometimes I felt hurt when he doesn't messaging me or never meet me for few weeks. I can't even read & know what his wanted. He was very quite & secretive in person. Everytime we met we like a couple of doll, never talked, just talked very less. But few days ago he suddenly changed. He started asked me many question & show that he's very interesting in knowing me more. I felt so weird with his behavior, but Im happy for that. Relationship always complicated.

Lona Moss
Lona Moss
ID: 109813
Posts: 4
Date: 2007-06-19 22:00
Good for you Rahirza

>... Why are some people so afraid of getting hurt,that they rather
stay stuck in a relationship with a person that doesn't make them happy, but
only with out of pitty.. I think you should just move on..-> go for it! I mean you
have nothing to loose but to gain...right?

Re: If someone would want to stay stuck in a relationship with a person who doesn't make them happy then they are getting hurt because one of the best thing in life is happyiness and if you're not happy then most likely you'll be miserable and taunted until you find that person that will make you happy, but until then you have to make yourself happy and leave that person that does not want to make you happy. And i really don't think someone should stay in a relationship out of pitty because that will make both of you unhappy, sooner or later it will show.
:sleep::shh:

Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
ID: 114505
Posts: 936
Date: 2007-06-20 08:26
Just out of CURIOUSITY:endecided:

Why do some people change relationships like dirty diapers?
When crap happens they just walk out, rather than try to resolve a problem and get through the tough times?:cantlook:
So should someone practice throwing away people, like a soiled diaper?--:dunno:
Whether it be :lips::lips: OR :muscle::muscle:. . ."TRUE BLUE" IS The GENE that fits ALL;)

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-06-20 09:28
maybe they r in love

Unique Teran
Unique Teran
ID: 196529
Posts: 80
Date: 2007-06-22 21:55
....lol eyeforanimage!:lol:
UNIQUE TERAN

Busola F.
Busola F.
ID: 183020
Posts: 267
Date: 2007-06-23 07:23
Tek, i used to be like that. the moment a guy pissed me up, i walked out. but later i realized i was looking for a perfect guy who didnt exist. sometimes its a psychological thing especially with those that come from broken homes. they don't want to be failures so they keep trying till they think they have found the one.:)
:lips:sexy:lips:

Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
ID: 114505
Posts: 936
Date: 2007-06-23 07:53
PLEASE LET ME CLARIFY;)
FYI{> This has nothing to do with looking for the perfect guy.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS THE PERFECT PERSON--
OR we'd all have it so that no one would have the inconvenience of having to take restroom breaks, for one thing...:lol:
--It is a reality that some are abusive & use people ( to be more specific)...And fortunately there is NOT every male that is like this.:lips::lips::muscle::saint:
For which I am well aware!:thumbup::thumbup:
This was only a generalized statement...So, Busola, that's not my attitude of the male populus--NEVER HAS BEEN, & NEVER WILL!
I LOVE & VALUE MEN TOO MUCH! [& this goes beyond their SEXUALITY, as well.:lookdown:]
HAVE SOME TRULY FANTASTIC MEN I'VE MET HERE, TOO!!!:D:cool::cool:
:lips::lips::lips:;)
Whether it be :lips::lips: OR :muscle::muscle:. . ."TRUE BLUE" IS The GENE that fits ALL;)

Unique Teran
Unique Teran
ID: 196529
Posts: 80
Date: 2007-06-23 14:52
>...I totally agree with you Lona:)
UNIQUE TERAN

Busola F.
Busola F.
ID: 183020
Posts: 267
Date: 2007-06-23 15:39
Tek, i wasn't saying you were like that. i was only answering a question. sorry if you read the wrong meaning to my answer. i love and value men too. they are closer to me than girls. maybe because i'm the only girl in my house.
:lips:sexy:lips:

Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU
ID: 114505
Posts: 936
Date: 2007-06-23 15:57
Busola F.:

Tek, i wasn't saying you were like that. i was only answering a question. sorry if you read the wrong meaning to my answer. i love and value men too. they are closer to me than girls. maybe because i'm the only girl in my house.


Hi CUTIE:D
I didn't think you were--just thought I'd set anyone else straight who might not know!
I think your COOL ChiC;)
Whether it be :lips::lips: OR :muscle::muscle:. . ."TRUE BLUE" IS The GENE that fits ALL;)

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Date: 2007-06-25 09:40
Yeah..well some i like me, dont have the guts to do it . :endecided:

Unique Teran
Unique Teran
ID: 196529
Posts: 80
Date: 2007-06-26 00:11
>...YIIIKES! Lorena sweetie you only live once so you gotta live it up!! and sometimes
you just gotta say F@*k! IT...Strieve to gain rather than to loose and"'DON'T" ever look back!:)
UNIQUE TERAN

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