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Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-04 16:31
I have been on jurgita for about 2 months now and the majority of messages i have received are of men, who seem to think this is a site where all the girls want relationship with them, I have found this extremely annoying as i have joined this website to pursue my ambitions of becoming a model, not to get hooked up :doh: so was just wondering if anybody else has felt like this site is just crawling with pervs who constantly ask you to be their friend? Just randomly, sometimes without ever sending a message or anything, i mean seriously is this some sort of haven for pervy men to go through every young girls profiles copying and pasting the same cheasy chat up line, in hope that one will reply :lol:. sorry if this upsets the few men who dont. I just don't understand why they waste there time on here just pestering people who i personally belive would have no intrest in going off or sending dirty pictures to wierd old men, that would just be asking for trouble with the state of some of the sickos on the internet.
Well i have had my rant know :thumbup: i feel bit better.
I just feel that this issue hasn't been brought up.
Please let me know your experiances or views on this topic!
Thanks for your time,
Rachel :embarassed: x
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
ID: 182744
Posts: 1441
Date: 2007-10-04 18:08
I get mails from profiles asking me to hook up with them for life. All I have to do is contact them at their instant messenger address and they promise they will send me pictures of themselves that would be banned from the site.

Well, if you believe someone has approached you in an inappropriate manner, bring it to the attention of the moderators or administration. We do try to clean out and keep out the scum.

As far as guys just being childish and immature, disrespectful and perverted jerks, well...short of wiping the sex from the planet, any website is going to get you the same aggravating male antics found in bars, shopping malls, night clubs, public places, etc.

Unfortunate, yes, but if it is any consolation, I will be the first to admit that my species rarely gives women the respect they are due.
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

Usman Ahmad
Usman Ahmad
ID: 204767
Posts: 99
Date: 2007-10-04 18:15
not all men are like that!!!..

Elizabeth D.
Elizabeth D.
ID: 198827
Posts: 141
Date: 2007-10-04 18:29
exactly ...it irritates me wen that happens cuz i sumtimes get those messages too!!!..thay have no reason to be on here..they needa stick to myspace n stay outta myspace...this is a proffesional site not a date site or sumthin
.:*~Liz~*:.

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-04 20:03
lol I knew I would get men jumping in saying "not all men are like that" coz men never read anything properly lol anymore men wanting to say that should read it properly first and if they do jump in saying it its kinda trying to defend themselves.....which maybe might mean they feel im saying something bad about them so if they arnt like that why would they be offended.
I know that you get all that crap anywhere i was just stating that these people must sit on the computer all day just doing that on every site they can, maybe im just trying to help some of the saddos realise how sad they are :lol:

Yeah well there is a dating bit on this site so why cant they stick to that instead of just searching for teenage girls in the directory search page, and not giving a f*** at all wether or not the people are intrested in dating anybody its just their way of trying to approch people who meet their "type" of requirments in what they look for.

Ive even had somebody saying he was a professional and i was finding him helpful at first as he was telling me how to improve my portfolio and that but then he just started getting a bit creepy and saying i could take personal photos for him showing more of my sexy side, im not mentioning names but it just sorta made me think twice before talking to people on here as you never know who they are really and im now extremely sceptical about anybody offering help!

This is the thing I have the biggest problem with, just random pervs you expect, but people trying to worm there way in with you is just extremly frustrating as not only do you get your time wasted :doh: it also leaves you wondering if this has happend to other people on here before who wernt as aware of what the person was really trying to do.

Ahhhhhh!!! This topic is soo aggrevating :angry:
I feel jurgita is a kool site lyk and i have gained lots of help from people on here,
so don't get me wrong most of you people are kind and helpful!
Just wish there wern't piggish men around!

Sorry for yet another RANT:muscle: :lol:

Thanks
Rachel
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

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Date: 2007-10-04 22:51
I'm sorry to hear you've had a bad experience :cry:. I don't seem to have that problem in Jurgita, I seem to have that happen to me more in real life. Creepy men in real life are a lot harder to handle than on the internet. But I think in the end there are a lot more nice people than there are creepy/mean people on Jurgita. :D

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-04 23:15
Hi Margaret well I wonder why i get so many idiots pestering me coz you look stunning :dunno: well I dont know suppose they probs just go afer younger people because they think they are more gullable :doh:

But im glad that you havnt been harassed, it annoying when they finally do reveal that they are just nobs knowing you have wasted time typing messages and that and it was all pointless:angry:

Regards
Rachel x
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

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Date: 2007-10-04 23:54
Rachel C.:

Hi Margaret well I wonder why i get so many idiots pestering me coz you look stunning :dunno: well I dont know suppose they probs just go afer younger people because they think they are more gullable :doh:

But im glad that you havnt been harassed, it annoying when they finally do reveal that they are just nobs knowing you have wasted time typing messages and that and it was all pointless:angry:

Regards
Rachel x


Thanks Rachel :D. They're probably going after gorgeous young girls, so the combination of youth and beauty probably does it for them (so I guess you can feel flattered in that sense lol). I can see how it can be really annoying when you spend all that time messaging them and only to realize it was for nothing. If they were members that were registered under scouts or agencies and were approaching you inappropriately, I'm sure you could report them and warn others on Jurgita about it.

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-05 00:08
i did aint heared nothin back though :(
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

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Date: 2007-10-05 00:10
Rachel C.:

i did aint heared nothin back though :(


Oh I'm sure they'll get to replying back. Maybe create a new post in the scam forum section?

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-05 00:15
mmm maybe. but you know they will just register again, its a bit pointless then ill probably start getting negative votes and all that off these newly created users :dunno:
lol. But thanx for the advise any way hunni :D
x
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

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Date: 2007-10-05 00:19
Rachel C.:

mmm maybe. but you know they will just register again, its a bit pointless then ill probably start getting negative votes and all that off these newly created users :dunno:
lol. But thanx for the advise any way hunni :D
x


Well in the end you can just shrug them off. Don't let guys like that ruin your day :D.

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-05 00:23
Well im just hoping to stay positive and not let it get to me, The thing that wound me up most was time wasting.:angry: lol but have had my little moan about it now and am feeln better now av ad a nice talk wid someone :thumbup: Thankooo x
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

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Date: 2007-10-05 00:30
Rachel C.:

Well im just hoping to stay positive and not let it get to me, The thing that wound me up most was time wasting.:angry: lol but have had my little moan about it now and am feeln better now av ad a nice talk wid someone :thumbup: Thankooo x


No worries! :D Us girls have to stick together.

Lucia M.
Lucia M.
ID: 170792
Posts: 681
Date: 2007-10-05 02:05
First I guess I should say sorry girl altho in the real sense that may just be th start. yes..the start! Such people will always be there whether online or in real..not all people will be what they pose to be. U just have to be strong and learn how to deal with it. If u r registered in flirt zone things might even get worse <sorry to say>. Karls' idea seems good as of now this applies if someone is registered as a proffessional and makes such advances but as for the normal members who are here for the flirting guess u just have to ignore such.

:muscle:
:muscle:

Marina Jaksic
Marina Jaksic
ID: 174128
Posts: 25
Date: 2007-10-05 02:09
I got a message from escort agency..if I want work as a escort girl:cantlook:

Daphne Akatugba
Daphne Akatugba
ID: 188448
Posts: 195
Date: 2007-10-05 06:32
that must have been shocking for you Marina right?

well, i think such approaches will always be there, so you just have to ignore them Racheal. people will do what they want to, all you have to do is set them straight and let them know what you want.

that's all i have to say!

Oluwaseun Adegoke
Oluwaseun Adegoke
ID: 202838
Posts: 280
Date: 2007-10-05 08:54
i kinda think that this is a case of hasty generalization all men are not pervs because i am a man and i am not like that.

But what can i say i am sorry for your experiences but i would ask you do u give them any reason to feel that way?

Just my thot
gokesean

Rachel Clark
Rachel Clark
ID: 203454
Posts: 43
Date: 2007-10-05 09:32
Nope absolutly no reason and as said higher up in this topic people always come down to saying 'well she was asking for it because she wore a dress' or something else retardish that they probably genuinly belive is true because thats there verson of somebody coming onto them.....somebody looks nice, they automatically think it was done for them :dunno: so its a free for all or something, Never crosses their mind that maybe they are trying to look good to get into modeling or something how propostorus somebody looking good to do modeling whats the world coming to :lol:
Laughters the best medicine! Keep on smiling! :)

Andromeda V1
Andromeda V1
ID: 188071
Posts: 288
Date: 2007-10-05 11:06
Rachel C.:

Nope absolutly no reason and as said higher up in this topic people always come down to saying 'well she was asking for it because she wore a dress' or something else retardish that they probably genuinly belive is true because thats there verson of somebody coming onto them . . .whats the world coming to :lol:


:.:AGREED:.: O_O_O = Chess Move= QUEEN's RIGHT!
:thumbup:RACHEL:cool::cool:
I have been contacted for "porn pictures"...Whether or not we have that spot marked in our portfolios is no reason to be treated like a "meat wagon"...
ESPECIALLY...coming out of the obtrusive blue-- to expect that is just nonsense.

It can become rather annoying to find stereotypical attitudes--:upset:
Some girls are escorts...And some may consider certain types of modest nudes ADULT material--That doesn't mean that you are a XXX player...So those type of guys should be re-educated in their synopsis, before engaging their testosterone mentality..
Enough READ BULL>:muscle:
TAKE >CARE --GIRLS;)

PS ALL healthy men like looking at women...BUT the approach and treatment & respect given to my gender is what separates the classy men, from the pond scum...
To answer the Models' vortex TEXT & Ursa Minor Question{>
NO, NO, & ABSOLUTELY NOT... THERE ARE GOOD MEN STILL ON THE PLANET--
Maybe not as plentiful as one would wish.:cantlook:
But then, how many men have been treated like sex machines by women?
'Hair' TODAY, (Cy) ;) .:. NET=---> Tomorrow! :lol::lips:

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