Last post by Libby A. in topic More PhotosTopics: 2760Posts: 29225Annoying Posts About Men. Total results: 12 Pages: 1 [ 1] |
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 ID: 194271 Posts: 156 | Date: 2007-10-15 01:53 I do not know about the other guys on Jurgita but these topics about most men
being perverts, jerks, old sleazy men craving after young girls and a few more
other rude and damaging remarks is really starting to pee me of.
I am not being funny ladies but start being a lot more selective and careful
with remarks like that, you are busy tarnishing and smearing us and I for one do
not like it.
If you had a mail from somebody that you found offensive sort it out with that
person, there is channels to do that.
Do not start posting topics about "men being perverts or whatever". You are
generalizing with that word "men" and smearing all men on Jurgita.
Maybe there is a few men that is in the wrong but then lets sort them out and
leave the other guys alone.
I for one feel strong to take this issue up with the moderaters as they should
be stricter with posts that is damaging to other Jurgita users.
Regards to you all.
Deon |
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 ID: 170792 Posts: 684 | Date: 2007-10-15 03:34 To avoid starting another conversial debate plz foward ur concerns to the
administrator. Use the contact us button below this page. |
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ID: 194271 Posts: 156 | Date: 2007-10-15 04:39 Hi Lucia, nice new pics.
I actually have posted a complaint to the admin by using the contact link.
Have a lovely day in Kenya, the weather is great over in Tanzania today.
Regards
Deon. |
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ID: 170792 Posts: 684 | Date: 2007-10-15 04:44 Deon Naude:
Hi Lucia, nice new pics.
I actually have posted a complaint to the admin by using the contact link.
Have a lovely day in Kenya, the weather is great over in Tanzania today.
Regards
Deon.
Thanks, Deon. It's a brilliant day over here. Warm, sunny n very bright. Am glad
u've contacted th admin n sure they will check on the matter.
Have a great day too |
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 ID: 182744 Posts: 1442 | Date: 2007-10-15 15:46 Given that Jurgita has a very simple and easy procedure for reporting and
dealing with perverts and other types of rule breakers, I agree with the OP's
protest.
I can also see how females can become fed up and disgusted enough to publicly
protest their treatment at the hand of a minority of males.
Not saying that this is what is happening here, but there sometimes is a devious
cry for attention that drives a small number of females to publicly shout out
any attention paid to them as a way of telling the world "See? I am very
attractive! Men keep making moves on me!".
On the opposite end of the spectrum, some males doth protest to much, jumping up
to tell the world "I am not a pervert". Right or wrong, some might interpret
that as a guilty conscience.
I saw no need to defend myself from the general question "Are all men
perverts?".
My suggestion to other men is to not let the generalization bother you. The
people who know and love you know better and I also do no think the forum post
dissuaded any models from wanting to deal with male photographers and agents.
Indeed, the post did bother me mostly because I worried that the world sees such
a post and the Jurgita site reputation was at risk, not mine.
I would therefore implore that people who wish to obtain something
professionally from this site please use some judgment and refrain from posting
things that could damage the site and thereby damage their own ability to obtain
jobs from the site. I will bet you though that anyone considering hiring the OP
of that post as a model is going to think twice about hiring her lest any small
thing during the photo shoot be misinterpreted and the photographer be labeled a
perv! (Just another good reason to use the "Contact Us" button before resorting
to public complaints.) Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should  |
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Mystique Eyed Phoenix IonU |
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 ID: 114505 Posts: 917 | Date: 2007-10-15 16:18 Deon Naude:
I do not know about the other guys on Jurgita but these topics about most men
being perverts, jerks, old sleazy men craving after young girls and a few more
other rude and damaging remarks is really starting to pee me of.
I am not being funny ladies but start being a lot more selective and careful
with remarks like that, you are busy tarnishing and smearing us and I for one do
not like it.
If you had a mail from somebody that you found offensive sort it out with that
person, there is channels to do that.
Do not start posting topics about "men being perverts or whatever". You are
generalizing with that word "men" and smearing all men on Jurgita.
Maybe there is a few men that is in the wrong but then lets sort them out and
leave the other guys alone.
I for one feel strong to take this issue up with the moderaters as they should
be stricter with posts that is damaging to other Jurgita users.
Regards to you all.
Deon
I, too,
sympathize with you, Deon! 
There are wonderful men at this site that are fun & lighthearted-- from even
amateur, semi-pro, & professional classifications of various talents... BUT &
AND=--> to those of us in this family that know or monitor activity, when
able--The GooD 1's are exempt from the bandwagon of such misguided & generalized
subtle insults.
I'm glad I wasn't the only to be peeved--even though I'm not a man--I don't have
to "try on the shoe on the other foot" sort of role play...just to catch the
melodrama drifter's surf & cyber shore line.  |
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Cheri D. Clark aka Frenchi |
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 ID: 209800 Posts: 336 | Date: 2007-10-15 23:06 Maybe the free email system currently in place has something to do with all the
contact problems, inappropriate emails and complaints about the postings in the
forums. This has been mentioned on several occasions by various members over the
past few months. It appears to some of us here that the problems have gotten
worse since the use of the new free email policy. I am uncertain that
administrators/moderators are truly willing/able to conquer many of these issues
that individuals have been complaining about. If they were, we would have seen
the progressive steps needed in that positive direction. Just a thought... |
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ID: 194271 Posts: 156 | Date: 2007-10-16 02:18 Karl,
As always the fountain of wisdom.
I told admin that I did not want to make a scene out of this but only that they
have to be stricter on what they allow people to post, my full sympathies to the
ladies that has been grieved by nasty mails sent to them. But as pointed out
there is proper ways of dealing with these few and no need to make it look if
Jurgita is crawling with male perverts and sleazy old men. Who will want to be
part of a site that has a reputation like that. I myself joined this site
because it had a good reputation with outstanding models and photographers as
members with a very easy going but professional attitude. I have really enjoyed
my time up to date as a member of this site. It is easy to sit back and say I am
not one of those "perverts or whatever" but that is not the point, the point is
that all the men on this site gets swiped with that tarnished brush when the
ladies generalize, not only are all the men on this site now somehow "suspect"
but the reputation of the site also takes a huge blow. Why just because one lady
got grieved by a supposedly nasty mail sent to her and decided to take a hit at
all men on the site for the sake of a bit of sympathy. Sorry but that does pee
me off.
I do not know if admin will even act on this as they only asked me for a link
yesterday and nothing further, but I will at least know I made my point in this
matter clear.
Regards to all
Deon |
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ID: 194271 Posts: 156 | Date: 2007-10-16 03:00 OK I have had a reply from admin and is happy with their verdict. It seems that
this is a nasty problem we do have on Jurgita with certain guys sending very
nasty mails to some of the ladies. Ladies you have my full support on this and I
am sorry that you do get mails like that.
All I ask is that you just be careful not to generalize us men on Jurgita and to
use the proper channels to rid the site of these guys.
Regards to all
Deon |
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 ID: 166375 Posts: 513 | Date: 2007-10-16 03:21 A point from me:
1. As there still are countries which do not accept payments, mailing was made
free. There are always some people unhappy. If the mailing is free we do get
spam, if it is payable we cannot send letters. Both ways have a problem.. I
support the free mailing because we all should have same rights, dont we? So
than, if we get spam, lets be a community and get rid of these guys who want
only dating or are just scams (scouts/photographers/agencies). I am repeating in
every post i make, if you see an inappropriate activity by some individual, let
us know, use the contact us button at the bottom of page and tell who
and what. I cannot help if a person writes "hi guys i have got 2 letter
from Peter and he is annoying". Sorry to say but there are about 2000 Peters
here.. So lets say the profile id and copy the text he was sending.
2. Such discussion that we have seen "Are men perverts". Should get a clear
answer "You should edit your topic first, we do not tolerate a word pervert".
That should be the first step. Then if the person is taking changes and has
edited the topic to lets say "do you get as many spam from men as i do?" lets
continue discussion. We must be as one and support each other and also, there
will be no order on this forum if we will be indifferent for topics like "this
site sucks, men are perverts, i want to see your pussy and so on" . I cannot see
each post and cannot save each member from each discomfort, lets do it together
and lets show that we do not support public argues and insults.Love to Love |
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ID: 170792 Posts: 684 | Date: 2007-10-16 03:46 Rasa N.:
"You should edit your topic first, we do not tolerate a word pervert". That
should be the first step. Then if the person is taking changes and has edited
the topic to lets say "do you get as many spam from men as i do?" lets continue
discussion.
As far as I know..topic titles can not be edited once posted neither can
pictures posted with a new topic be removed. U can only edit the contents of the
topic. Mayb this should be changed inorder to enable members to correct mistakes
they might have made while posting. |
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ID: 166375 Posts: 513 | Date: 2007-10-16 05:40 Thanks Lucia. Maybe i have forgotten that. Anyway I've changed the topic  Love to Love |
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