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Are Models Supposed To Be Gay?

 
 
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Hey, people? I recently was about to land a job in a modelling firm, although at the moment i dont know if i will still have the job. This is simply because the guy who is supposed to sign me on to the agency asked me out and i refused. I kindly told him i was not gay and i would forget about his proposal to me, if that is the way he works.

Fella, the thing is i am liberal when it comes to sexuality, but from the reserach i have made, it's gradually becoming clear to me that alot of models are gay? Is this how it works? I was recently told about the number of gay celebrities in my country and was surprised, well hope to read your replies. What do you guys think about being gay and the modelling industry?

many guy models are gay... but not all, i know some streight ones as well :D. You just had bad luck. But the gay guys are very nice to girls, they are my bet girlfriends. :)

Um... right... More of the girls are gay than the guys from my experience...

Gay as in the old use of the term from the 1920's, YES--As long as it's a "HAPPY"
Non Intimate moment;)
:lol:
Whether it be :lips::lips: OR :muscle::muscle:. . ."TRUE BLUE" IS The GENE that fits ALL;)

Old posts rehashed? I thought we went over this a couple months ago.

Ramona: Bad luck??? :D Interesting perspective.

Daniel: I suspect it may be a lot easier for a model to admit to being gay than, say, a construction worker. I have also known male models to fake being gay because in some circles you won;t get gigs unless you are. I will bet Rome in the course of his extensive experience has run across this form of reverse discrimination.

Male models have long been assumed by many to be gay because of the flamboyancy of much of the work. Historically you can trace that perception back to early European stage theater (think Shakespeare) when women were not allowed on stage and men had to play female roles. Then there are the tights....;)

And do not discount jealousy by other males in labeling models gay. A buff, chest-shaved hunk is going to make many guys feel inadequate. Hence the perception that a male who pays attention to grooming himself must be gay. Accusing the good looking, well-kept guy of being gay gets the sloppy, pot-bellied, unkempt male of the hook.

And then, modeling is also a safe profession for gay men. They are not the victims of 'construction accidents' by straight male workers.

Finally, it is not as acceptable for a man to dream of being a model as it is for a woman. Even though in my experience men have fantasies of success based upon their looks just as often as women do, society just accepts certain roles as normal for females and others as normal for men.

You are in a profession where on first assumption, people will believe you are gay. Just wink back when the harass you and they will leave you alone...quickly.
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

then most female models also are lesbians? I don't think all models are gay. Depends on the individual person. Gay relationship is not only happen in modelling and fashion industry, but in others. A student could be a gay too. A business man/woman could be. No offend to anyone. Just my point of view. And I do still like a guy!

its ok if their gay its just their sexuality
:lips:..omg i just need a mate to talk to baby..:lips:

Daniel, hello..
this question is like the test you take in logic. are all oriental buddhists?

well, it's not that most models are gay, so gays become models. it's more so that
fashion, designing, clothes, looking pretty,etc are more feminine traits than the sterotypical male. you know?
i am heterosexual , nothing halfway, but yes, many of the ppl i've worked with are either gay or liberal. but i also know of designers who are 100% hetero like myself.
the world's most popular designers are mostly gay too, at this moment, so are many musicians and other artists.

it's not a community that makes ppl gay or hetero, it just happens that the fashion world attracts more gays and liberals, because it's , as i say, a feminine traits.
society tells us that man are supposed to like boxing, wrestling , football, smell dirtier, rougher, look hairier, talk filthier, act dumber, nastier,etc... stereo-typical as always...
whereas fashion is all about looking pretty and lots of attention to beauty, like tending to your rose garden, taking care of your skin,etc..
so it's no wonder, not too many Hulk Hogans chose to be in fashion designing or be a makeup artist :lol: even fewer become photographers.. Goodness, they would need a SLR the size of the old view camera for their hands :cantlook:
but we , the heterosexuals, are numerous too.

it's like any other way of life, we're of every nationality, religion, colour, sexual preference,etc.
i do get asked out by gays, even at a non-fashioned environment. you shouldn't feel insulted or anything like that. it's no different from a woman asking to be your friend.
she may be gay too.

so NO, models are NOT supposed to be gay, they just so HAPPEN to BE so.
good question , though!:thumbup:
you provide the character, and i will take care of the rest to capture your persona.

Hey Matt, thanks alot for your reply, it really makes alot of sense but cant a hetero guy look good, smell nice and all that, without coming off as gay?
Thanks again.

Daniel O.:

Hey Matt, thanks alot for your reply, it really makes alot of sense but cant a hetero guy look good, smell nice and all that, without coming off as gay?
Thanks again.


ya Daniel, i suppose so, but society has conditioned so many ppl that it's probably going to take a few generations to unthink that.
remember this is only happening now . in the old days of our great-grand & grandparents' teenage years, men were suave too without coming off as gay... (clark gable, richard burton, bobby darin, even going back to valentino), then we came forward with less incidents (sean connery, george clooney).
how it suddenly became a gay thing to be like you say : smell nice and all that...
Daniel, your guess is as good as mine.
perharps, it's the present generation's obssession of the extremes: you're this:muscle: or you're not!:lips:

:doh:makes for a good thesis to write, huh? :D:lol:
you provide the character, and i will take care of the rest to capture your persona.

it's a pity we don't have a gay to discuss this. all we're getting here is mostly from a hetero point of view.
perharps, if someone who is gay should find this forum, maybe then we will get a better perspective of it.

it's a good forum Daniel :thumbup:
you provide the character, and i will take care of the rest to capture your persona.

I agree not all male models/dancers are gay
Kimberley :)

Your joking right? No- of course not all models, dancers etc., are gay. Where's your common sense?

:dunno:

Thank you guys for your reply, i'm sure it'll make a good write up, lol:lol:
what about male models who act like girls, now, where do we put those ones?

i don t know the answer to that maybe womanized man :lol:
Kimberley :)

:cantlook::cantlook: yes, Kim S i agree:cantlook:
best not to say anything to offend anyone. but it doesn't look good at all:lol::lol:
you provide the character, and i will take care of the rest to capture your persona.

Rahirza .:

then most female models also are lesbians? I don't think all models are gay. Depends on the individual person. Gay relationship is not only happen in modelling and fashion industry, but in others. A student could be a gay too. A business man/woman could be. No offend to anyone. Just my point of view. And I do still like a guy!


Agree with u..

Daniel O.:
Are Models Supposed To Be Gay?


OF COURSE THEY ARE NOT GAY! What kind of question is that???

Totally wierd debate if i might say. If someone asked you to go out with him, fine, that can happen in any industry, anywhere, by anyone.

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