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Elena Marin
Elena Marin
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Posts: 490
Date: 2008-07-01 15:34
If meet someone and that person have a child and U have a baby also, but THIS PERSON LOVE HIS CHILD MORE...MUCH MORE....that your baby....dear frends from Jurgita, U think that this relation will work??????
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Gary Young
Gary Young
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Posts: 1294
Date: 2008-07-01 16:07
Exactly as you explain it Elena... no!
Why??:dunno:
Well if he loves his child more than yours he will always favour his own over yours,
though he will keep promising to change very few men will unfortunately:(

If I were the man in that situation I would care equally about both children:)
but not a lot of men are like me & I can only speak for me:thumbup:
I don't have any kids myself, I do like kids though:)

If I was to meet a woman with a child, I'd do my best to be the closest to a real father for the child, treating the child as one of my own, giving love and care too:)
and if I had my own child I wouldn't treat the child that isn't mine any less than the child that is:thumbup:

If I was the woman I would be asking myself... if he loves and cares less for my child than his own, then does he love ans care for me the way he says he does?
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Cheri D. Clark aka Frenchi
Cheri D. Clark aka Frenchi
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Posts: 446
Date: 2008-07-01 18:10
If your even asking this question he is probably not truly the "One" for you.

:) There are a lot of good ones out there..You'll find him..

--Sheryl


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Kim S.
Kim S.
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Posts: 537
Date: 2008-07-02 02:14
probably no . he s got to love you more.
Kimberley :)

Libby A.
Libby A.
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Posts: 542
Date: 2008-07-03 10:58
In a relationship where both parties haa issues, it is possible for each person to love his or her child more than the other partner. Remember, he isn't the father and you are not the other baby's mother either, so all i'm going to say is that the relationship can work. all it needs is time on both side. The guy needs time, so do the lady.

We are human, we are not suppose to be perfect in all ways but with patience, understanding and love, we can achieve the imposibilities.

Love can move mountain if you believe and set all you mind at it.

Libby

Elena Marin
Elena Marin
ID: 246345
Posts: 490
Date: 2008-07-04 01:54
Thanks friends of jurgita
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Giedrius Majauskas
Giedrius Majauskas
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Posts: 98
Date: 2008-07-04 02:00
Sure it might work. The question is not how much he loves your baby, but how goes relationship between you two and how he will treat your kid.
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Gary Young
Gary Young
ID: 237093
Posts: 1294
Date: 2008-07-05 18:45
If he doesn't show the same love towards your child it will result in a situation where your child will feel rather left out, and towards your child he may become violent in the coming years, possibly to you too as you will protect your own child first,
the mother always protects her own child human nature, some men just cannot accept a child that's not their own fully no matter what they tell you,
I can say this honestly as I saw my cousin & her son being beaten black & blue by a guy she said she loved & wasn't going to leave... the way he hit her 5 year old son... well I'm leaving that there!
I'm the type that would treat all children equally whether mines or not :thumbup:
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Gary Young
Gary Young
ID: 237093
Posts: 1294
Date: 2008-07-05 19:08
Any man that takes on a woman with a child that has his own child should treat her child as he treats his own, if not... he should just be shown the door:thumbup:
Same goes for a man without a child, if he takes on a single mum he should treat the child right, as I myself would treat the child like he/she was my own:thumbup::)
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Lucia M.
Lucia M.
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Posts: 688
Date: 2008-07-08 00:36
I can bet it won't work....both the children should be shown equal affection from the two of you..any unfairness will bring conflicts in ur r/ship
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Gary Young
Gary Young
ID: 237093
Posts: 1294
Date: 2008-07-11 19:55
Look at it this way...

A guy with a kid of his own from a past relationship that puts his own son/daughter top priority that takes on a single mum & treats her kid as less than his own is no good!
If this topic is about yourself I wouldn't waste any time getting rid of him!
There's better guys around in this world that would treat you and your child much better!

Sometimes you just got to let go, I've let go of someone myself before that I didn't want to... but all was fine again about a week later:thumbup:
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