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Jealous Lover Or Friends, Put On The Spot To Make A Choice

 
 
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Gaz Young
Gaz Young
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Date: 2009-07-14 05:48
Seems like a no win situation but you're in a position where you've got to choose between the posessive one you love or your friends... who would you choose?

These may sound familiar situations for anyone that's been in them...

Your relationship is under threat because of she doesn't like you having female friends?
She doesn't like you going out with the the boys & leaving her alone on friday night?
( jealous boyfriends for the girls )

September L.
 
September L.
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Date: 2009-07-15 09:49
Possessive nature tends to stem from insecurity in the relationship.....I think if that is addressed ....it is a win win situation :)

Melissa Robertson
 
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Date: 2009-07-15 15:32
September L.:

Possessive nature tends to stem from insecurity in the relationship.....I think if that is addressed ....it is a win win situation :)

Hello???
Posessive gals try hogging all the guys free time + attention to themselves!
some old friends from the school days tries that & now are single mums because the guys left them!

big difference between being insecure & posessive!
treat a guy as your property & tell his friends "you cant see him no more" or "you canny have him" you will lose him & your feeling wont mean nothing!
how would you feel if a guy you were with said you cant go out with friends?

its a lack of trust or absolutely no trust, not healthy:(
how can you say you love someone & then say you cant have any friends?
:saint:

Gaz Young
 
Gaz Young
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Date: 2009-07-15 15:47
Melissa Robertson:

[September L.: ...]
Hello???
Posessive gals try hogging all the guys free time + attention to themselves!
some old friends from the school days tries that & now are single mums because the guys left them!

big difference between being insecure & posessive!
treat a guy as your property & tell his friends "you cant see him no more" or "you canny have him" you will lose him & your feeling wont mean nothing!
how would you feel if a guy you were with said you cant go out with friends?

its a lack of trust or absolutely no trust, not healthy:(
how can you say you love someone & then say you cant have any friends?

I had one myself, apart from moaning about about friday evening boys night out she kept dragging on about my female friends as if I were having it off with them all, my sister blackened her eye after accusing me & my sister of incest:shocked:

She could talk though... she was running round with other guys behind my back & thought I never knew before I caught her out the first time, I tried saying to her...
I don't trust your friends & she exploded in my face:doh:
Past 5 years single & free without her have been single bliss:pleased:

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Date: 2009-07-18 21:40
I look at it this way. If she meets you on a boys night out, she knows that it's the boys night out and she has nothing to say. If she's an ezotic dancer and you meet her at the club, you have nothing to say about her job. If both partners are okay, accomodations cann be reached. As long as nothing happens, there should be no problem. If there is a problem, then you should look elsewherre. I've seen (and been in) more relationships that jealousy has destroyed. I've never seen jealousy save a relationship.

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