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 ID: 166375 Posts: 513 | Date: 2007-03-13 08:48 What are the main reasons that make women act fake orgasm?
I would like to hear ideas which could be used for an article 
So lets share some experience under this topic  Love to Love |
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| Date: 2007-03-13 10:10 Very interesting question Rasa. LOL, cant wait to see some of the answers to
this one. I guess I will wade into this one first!
1) Difficulty in achieving orgasm leads some women to think there is something
wrong with them, so they fake it to appear "OK" to partner
2) Some dont get satisfaction from a partner they otherwise love, so rather than
hurt someones feelings, they fake it
3) Maybe it is just a bad day and they want it to be over with ??? LOL |
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 ID: 179376 Posts: 825 | Date: 2007-03-13 11:43 WoW!!
Women fake orgasms?
Larry |
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 ID: 178549 Posts: 55 | Date: 2007-03-13 15:18 I CANT BELIEVE YOU DIDNT KNO WOMEN FAKE ORGASMS!!
NOW EVER TIME LARRY HAS SEX HE WILL ALWAYS QUESTION IT!! WAY TO GO RASA!!JK!BREA HENDRICK |
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 ID: 160909 Posts: 570 | Date: 2007-03-13 16:25 Woman fakes orgasm because she doesn't want to hurt man's feelings.  Among reasons why
she can't get orgasm could be a stressful day or something like this.I am still here |
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 ID: 127512 Posts: 2 | Date: 2007-03-14 03:28 okay ??? |
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 ID: 164481 Posts: 31 | Date: 2007-03-14 07:52 simple answer - man rarely try his best to make women feel like in heaven, and
if woman care her partner, she fake the orgasm its just because
women are so caring and dont want to hurt mans feelings  Ugly But Adorable |
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ID: 179376 Posts: 825 | Date: 2007-03-14 08:04
I cant believe she thought I was serious.......I always make sure she gets hers
first....I know how important that is.
Reverse cowboy baby.....
Larry |
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ID: 166375 Posts: 513 | Date: 2007-03-14 08:05 Well i think its quite usual and nothing to be ashame off ))) Especially couples
that live for a long time together.
Also first time maybe not very nice, but the beginning is always the most
interesting. Of course you want to try everything new and so on, but latter for
many woman it becomes like duty...Maybe they get bored of sex or maybe of their
husbands, but the fact is that they start to act fake orgasms.. Do you agree? I
would like to hear your opinions about this Love to Love |
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 ID: 172911 Posts: 248 | Date: 2007-03-15 07:17 i think if a woman starts to think that sex is a duty she won't care to fake
anything  |
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ID: 164481 Posts: 31 | Date: 2007-03-15 07:47 I agree with Luciana! If woman starts to think sex is her duty - that means she
is stupid. She should stop giving sex to her partner then...if she doesn't want.
Anyways if partners want to have sex even after some time being together, they
both need to understand that sex is not duty for anyone and they both have to do
their best to satisfy partner  Ugly But Adorable |
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 ID: 184984 Posts: 7 | Date: 2007-03-16 13:37 FAKE ORGASM another talent of a women....... |
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 ID: 183878 Posts: 946 | Date: 2007-03-23 08:44 Faked one myself, once upon a time, just to get the woman to unwrap her legs and
go home.  If I haven't been there, I'm still planning on going!
If I haven't done it, I've still got time to try! |
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| Date: 2007-03-22 22:47 I can understand why faking would seem like a good idea if you dont want to hurt
their feelings.. but its better to not.. that way they can discover what truely
pleases you and you can actually experience it... instead of faking.. |
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| Date: 2007-04-12 21:40 Only a women can answer |
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 ID: 170792 Posts: 684 | Date: 2007-07-11 05:23 Charles Griffin:
Faked one myself, once upon a time, just to get the woman to unwrap her legs and
go home.
he he he he. thats funny.
Back to th question..guess one just wants to impress her partner |
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 ID: 182744 Posts: 1442 | Date: 2007-07-11 21:40 Personally, I have not figured out why women fake orgasms...or even if one has
faked one with me. How can you tell?
Perhaps the "Don;t want to hurt his feelings" argument might be on target.
When I have faked orgasms it has been for a basic reason: Because I don't want
to hurt her feelings. And yes, her feelings would be hurt. A man can get off
from just friction and imagining he is with someone else. Yes, to turn off a man
during sec a woman has to be either pretty horrible at sex or her body is not as
advertised when wearing clothing. On the second count, obviously that is casual
sex spurred by looks rather than commitment, personality and relationship.
The women I have faked it with I have not cared to pursue a relationship and
never bothered to see again.
If I am in a relationship with a woman and it turns out she is horrible at sex
(hasn't happened with any of my girlfriends yet) rather than be tortured by a
relationship of bad sex, I'd like to think I would have a sensitive and
strategic method in mind to improve her sex rather than endure horror.
Therefore, I would not fake and orgasm with someone I care for. How can she
improve if she thinks she is doing things right. In essence, I'd be punishing
myself!
Why isn't the same thing true for women? Do women prefer to suffer in silence
rather than risk hurting the feelings of their man? Shouldn't she be helping him
learn how to please her? Some potential insights come to my mind regarding the
health of such a relationship. Honesty, trust and dedication seem to be lacking
in the bond of friendship the couple is supposed to have. If there can be
dishonesty in the sex, then there can be dishonesty in other aspects of the
relationship.
I would like to think I have nothing to be ashamed of in front of my lifelong
friend and companion simply because we should be fully understanding, trusting
and honest with each other about our actions and our feelings. If a man's desire
is to have sex, pleasing only himself, what does that say about what he truly
thinks and feels about you as compared to himself and his own needs. If a woman
cannot feel comfortable in honestly letting a man know how to please, then how
is he to now that his honest, faithful and dedicated attention to you is not
pleasing you? When a man truly loves you, he really wants nothing more than to
please and impress you. Yes, his feelings may be hurt to know that he is not
succeeding but, if you truly are friends, he will accept that and work with you
to change things so that you are happy. If he cannot accept that he is not
perfect in bed (who is) and feels insulted and hurt beyond reconciliation then,
indeed, there was no true friendship there to begin with.
As much as sex is always on everyone's mind, the act truly comprises much less
than 1% of our actions. Yet that minuscule percentage controls and dominates our
lives. As unique, sensitive and feeling human beings with just as many needs as
men, why would a woman suffer perpetually to please her man? I for one, would
not want the love of my life to be suffering.
And if she doesn't mind having sex without achieving orgasm, still, please,
don't fake one just to please me. Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should |
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 ID: 194957 Posts: 2 | Date: 2007-07-11 21:48 Actually some women fake orgasms to help them achieve real orgasms.. The fake
yelling screaming panting moaning etc., increases bloodflow on a biological
level, and is often a turn-on on the psychological level.
Women are turned on more through imagination and fantasy, while men are more
visual in their turn ons. This is why women often prefer a good love novel,
while men often prefer porn.
If a woman is imagining or "faking" an orgasm she is actually far more likely to
have a real one. It is the same reason virtually any sex study ever done has
shown women are more likely to talk dirty during sex. The imaginatory aspect is
arousing for them.
Of course some women can't or don't orgasm for whatever reason (to tired, too
stressed, don't know how, lover sucks, not enough foreplay so the act is not
enjoyable, etc.) so they just want the sex to be over.
Plus I also agree some women like to make their boyfriend feel "special" even
when he is shitty in bed so they don't hurt his feelings. |
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 ID: 199360 Posts: 24 | Date: 2007-07-11 23:08 [*Link removed*:
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I think your pretty much on the money there.
however i find it works both ways around (entirely), im a guy and ive faked for
most of the reasons put forward, and some which havent. its not always that i
dont care for a person in that way, sometimes quite the opposite and im just not
in the mood for sex. if the person you are with is not open to trying "new"
things (im talking about places, positions etc... not bondage and the macabre)
sex can become monotonous and boring... there is no point in having sex for the
sake of having sex.
so if you think your partner maybe faking, or if you find yourself faking...
maybe you should try something new.
eg.
... get a remote vibrating egg or something and go out to dinner w your partner
(obviously in a heterosexual relationship the man will control the remote, in a
homosexual relationship, buy 2 eggs)
... get them pampered and do all those things that are done to "spice up" a
relationship.
both parties need to pay alot of attention to the other and need to know what
the other person likes, because as simple as it seems... EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT.
obviously if your trying to do this in a one night stand you need to be pretty
clued on to the sort of person you are with.
the other thing i might add is time and dedication to getting the job done,
rarely is someone that steamed up that they will go at their full potential in
the first half hour.... thats why foreplay is paramount (which i think should
more aptly be named forty play... as it seems most people spend closer to the
four minute mark than the forty).
i am sure all of this that i have mentioned is quite logical and already known
to all. so i have written it in the off chance somebody has no idea and not to
insult your sexual prowess.
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