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Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:03
How soon after a breakup?
Does casual sex count then?
Like a way to get away from the past?
Another way to feel close and loved once again?

Is it right to turn to the same sex because they have been in the same position as you.
And look to them for love?

Or should you just hide away..
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Simon's Photography
Simon's Photography
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:20
You shouldn't just hide away but you shouldn't turn to casual sex or make quick decisions without thinking them through just because you want to feel loved again because in your heart you will still know what the truth is
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Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:22
well things do change like.. maybe its a way to get away from the love of that person because thinking of them makes things worse.. that having sex might change things?
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Simon's Photography
Simon's Photography
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:24
no that jumping into sex with some random or relatively random person will most likely just be sex
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Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:25
meh maybe the randomness is whats needed for a wake up call
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

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Date: 2007-03-28 21:25
Break ups are hard. especially when you've been with someone for a long time. I think it depends on the person as to where you go from there. Some people move on quickly.. others dont. I think sometimes it's just best to get back to the way your life was before the relationship (providing you liked your life then). Or just get back into some other form of routine to get your mind more focused on other things. I suppose you could go for casual sex.. cant say i havent in the past. but it could end up bad if your looking to that person to feel loved.

I dont think :cantlook: hiding is a good idea. I know you may want to at first.. but may be easier to just take on the world full force right off the bat..

i dont know.. just a few thoughts.

Simon's Photography
Simon's Photography
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:27
maybe it will provide a wake up call but at the sme time it can provide more hurt
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Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:27
HAHA im always in hiding!
loner.. who never really ever goes out!lol!
So hiding would be one the things id have to do lol!

What about going back with an ex? like someone who still loves you?
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

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Date: 2007-03-28 21:28
I recently tryed the whole "wake up call" routine.. aka casual sex after you realize you've lost the one you love. didnt work for me... i just miss him more. i dont know.. may work for others.

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Date: 2007-03-28 21:29
But.. do you still love the ex? .. if not.. i dont think id go that route.. may end up messy

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:31
Well reason me and him broke up was cause of distance,
but heck that can change like after i grad i can move in with him.
Me and him ended on a great note, best of mates and still close like
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Simon's Photography
Simon's Photography
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:34
you need to work out though if you still love him and if you are willing to change your whole life just for him and more importantly would he be willing to do the same for you?
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:36
true.. i hate distance:( ..how i lost my guy.. we wont be living close to each other until september..

If you still care about him :) then why the heck not. If you're still close :).. but i dont think id decide anything right. right. away. But it's always a thought to see where things would go.

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:37
Well the offer was there before i met the other guy,
Like id be more living with his fam then anything as he was to be in uni lol!
Hey love never fades.. something that can be easily recindled..
This is someone to whom i was engaged to{yes madness at my age}
so.. i do think that says something..
although not for me for ending it due to distance:cantlook:
so many mistakes... so many losses...wheres the real answer?
will i ever find it before i die?:cantlook:
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

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Date: 2007-03-28 21:37
Simon is right though.. You need to also think about whats best for you and your life. especially if you want to go into further schooling..

Jim Mack
Jim Mack
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Date: 2007-03-28 21:38
Dont jump into anything Cindy wait a bit, your very pretty and young you have time

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Date: 2007-03-28 21:38
wow engaged. i'd say that says something. You must really have cared for each other :)

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Posts: 1299
Date: 2007-03-28 22:15
Yes we did.. it was the distance that killed it though.. not being able to see, hold and talk to each other and such.
Ill just get into something over there i guess if that be the case.
And Jim looks havnt got anything to do in life..
Heck yeh i am young but that never stopped me experiencing such things in the world i should never had
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
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Posts: 1299
Date: 2007-03-28 22:35
HAHA i suppose one way to get over them is get them sent to jail and hated
And no im not that bad!
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Larry F.
Larry F.
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Posts: 839
Date: 2007-03-29 07:26
Jim Mack:

Dont jump into anything Cindy wait a bit, your very pretty and young you have time



I agree. Take your time.

Realax, reflect and collect your thoughts.

;)

Larry

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