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 ID: 185732 Posts: 110 | Date: 2007-04-17 03:50 Would you allow your 16 year old daughter/ son to have sex?
If yes why, and if not give a reason.. Love |
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 ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-17 03:57 If they were going to have sex I'd much prefer them to be having sex under my
roof and be using the condoms I bought for them rather than them going out and
having sex in a field or something unprotected because they're too afraid to go
buy condoms....but of course I'd prefer them not to be having sex at all because
they'd still be my babies We Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
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 ID: 114641 Posts: 158 | Date: 2007-04-17 06:25 I think like Simon. My daughter was younger than 16 when she mad her first
experiences withe her young boyfriend. 
And in our house she had her own little appartement and we (the parrents) was
happy, that she comes home with her boyfriend  because
better at home, than in a car 
... but cultures are different ... in most countries of Europe its very liberal
and I think, that sex (safersex for singels) ist a very interesting and nice
pleasure  Tomorrow must be the longest day because everything is scheduled on it  |
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ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-17 07:04 ArteMaXX:
because better at home, than in a car
yeh at least you know she is safe and not going to get arrested for indecent
exposure or something like thatWe Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
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ID: 114641 Posts: 158 | Date: 2007-04-17 07:16 yeah ... I
don't know the law in GB and Ireland ... but here in Austria girls with 14 can
have sex with boys younger than 18
... and  most
girls start with 14 / 15 ... boys need a little bit longer  Tomorrow must be the longest day because everything is scheduled on it |
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ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-17 07:34 well in Ireland girls are meant to be 17 and can have sex with someone no more
than 2 years older than them...and boys are meant to be 16 and its 2 years againWe Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
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 ID: 179376 Posts: 839 | Date: 2007-04-17 07:40 No......but they probably already have...
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 ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-17 08:18 My children id agree with simon on that..
Like i wouldnt be able to say to my children they couldnt as i was young when i
first had my first sexual experience..
Although my moms not stupid to me having sex when i were of a young age.. When i
turned 16 since i had a boyfriend i asked her could i have sex.
Think she was more shocked that i asked permission!But glad that at the same
time i was actually "mature" enough to ask. lol
But oh god being 16 the stories of the other girls and boys.. sex in cars..
fields.. parks.. cinemas.. buses.. god everywhere they could just because they
couldnt do it in their own houses..
But i know myself that these girls are quite stupid too not using condoms in
case their parents found them..
Really... i dont know why there is such a hype over it and such a scare in
talking about it with their parents.. they've obviously done it before.. thus
the creation of them and maybe their siblings. with the sexual induendo in the
media.. magazines.. celebraties..its all around us..Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me  |
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ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-17 08:27 On a slightly side point to this....what do people think about drug stores and
supermarkets not selling condoms to either boys or girls because they say they
are "too young" should countries start introducing a law that says anyone above
the age of say 10 can buy condoms???or should it be left down to the persons own
opinions at the time of the sale????We Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
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ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-17 08:35 Id say sell them all the same..
Like now adays no one really looks their age..
It can easily be changed by how they dress and apply make up.
Even to the push up and padded bras they wear.
Like.. would you want to be the one who caused a pregnancy because they couldnt
be sold condoms?
Children that age arent just gonna not do it because they couldnt get
protection..
They'd try other methods like the withrawl one..Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me |
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ID: 114641 Posts: 158 | Date: 2007-04-17 09:04 sometimes I go to discothek and I can see, that young girls and boys get condoms
for free
... nobody is ashamed about it - that's good - and I hope they use this condoms
not only for joking
also our (femal) minister of health gave comdoms for free in Austrian schools
...
but this is another topic ... about parents and sex with 16 ...
... sex is pleasure ... (safer) sex is healthy ... good sex makes happy ...
and also kids should be happy  Tomorrow must be the longest day because everything is scheduled on it |
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ID: 185806 Posts: 411 | Date: 2007-04-17 09:12 Well I don't quite agree with giving condoms out to everyone in schools becaus
ein a way that encourages them to have sex...what I do believe in though is
allowing children to have access to contraception if they are sexually
active...if my kids were having sex I'd make sure to have a supply of condoms in
the house at all times so as to be sure they would never be having unprotected
sexWe Don't Take Risks to Escape Life!!
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 ID: 154201 Posts: 187 | Date: 2007-04-18 13:27 well whoever wants to have sex should be having sex with someone who consents to
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ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-19 05:28 Yes but then what about the age of laws?
And people can consent by force, and by the influence of drink and drugs.
So.. it cant always be said like that.Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me |
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 ID: 160909 Posts: 572 | Date: 2007-04-19 05:34 I would ask her to wait till 18  I am still here |
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ID: 185214 Posts: 1299 | Date: 2007-04-19 05:42 Lol! or til were both the legal age thats why im waiting. only.. a month and a bit left
then im legal *dances*Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me |
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 ID: 167467 Posts: 507 | Date: 2007-04-20 10:52 Same as Yana. Even though I lost it in the age of 15...
And I'm gonna make sure she/he is going to do that with the person I know!Visit my website! It's HERE |
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| Date: 2007-04-20 13:12 There's no such thing as 'allowing'. You cannot be responsible for another
person's actions - I don't care if parents are supposedly responsible for their
kids up until the age of 18/16/21/14/etc, it's just dumb to think you can
possibly stop them from having sex if they really want to.
Heck, I really wanted to, and I wasn't even one of the 'bad' girls. Course, I
had a weird physical reaction and somehow he could never get in [lol!] but if he
had, well I'd have had sex out on the beach, in an alley, on the old barracks,
on gravel, on rocks, in the sea...
Did my mum tell me 'You're not allowed to have sex'? No. She didn't have to, it
was an unspoken understanding, but I tried anyway because when you're in the
mood you think with your hormones and not with your brain.
After all the uncomfortable places I tried to have fun in, I know if I ever have
kids I will sit them down, explain everything, and issue orders to warn me if
they'll be having sex at a time when I might come home [so that I won't walk in
on them], along with a protection allowance. No kid of mine is gonna get bruises
from lying on gravel because their mum was dumb enough to think if s/he doesn't
have a bed to do it, they'll refrain >_< please! Where's the people-logic
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 ID: 183878 Posts: 1175 | Date: 2007-04-20 14:59 My first girlfriend and I did it in the back of a pickup truck filled with dried
corn-on-the-cob--basically cattle feed. If you think satin sheets send you on a
trip...If I haven't been there, I'm still planning on going!
If I haven't done it, I've still got time to try! |
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