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Can U Date Another Person's Spouse????????

 
 
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Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-04-23 10:22
i mean lets say u have great chemistry with this person yet u know they have a galfriend wld u go ahead and still date this person????????????

Billy Soh
Billy Soh
ID: 154201
Posts: 187
Date: 2007-04-23 12:16
if there's no committments, why not?

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
ID: 185214
Posts: 1299
Date: 2007-04-23 12:28
It does depend on the situation..
I cant really say anything though..iv been there lol.. although i were the origional gf.. i just had to let him have the other too in fear of loosing him.. :(

Like i wouldnt be ok being the other women.. id want more then that and commitment..id feel horrible if i broke up a relationship

can also depend on if you had been with them before and still loved them.. sometimes love can make you do stupid things

My grand daddy had like 6 wifes..or more actually..so he did it..:cantlook:
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Busola F.
Busola F.
ID: 183020
Posts: 267
Date: 2007-04-23 13:20
no. i cant share my man. although love can be crazy. dnt want to get hurt at the end:)
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Date: 2007-04-23 13:28
.. as much as i dont want to admit it. i have been there. and i was the "other girl" .. but the only reason i did it was because he assured me him and his girlfriend would soon be over with. Which they are now. and i care about him more than anything.. just certain situations do not allow us to currently be together .. which i hate! Life always has to get in the way.

I agree with Cindy. Depends on the situation really.

Larry F.
Larry F.
ID: 179376
Posts: 841
Date: 2007-04-23 15:15
Wow!!!, ethics.....it depends on the person. If you like them and think it would benefit them then sure.

But......who really knows what is right.

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Date: 2007-04-23 15:32
haha oh boy.

ive been "the other woman" before.

it was great. he told me things i wanted to hear. said it at the right times.
but in the end, he stayed with his gf.

he got his ass and stayed with the gf, and now i looked like the fool.

there might be chemistry, but make sure he isnt a fake a$$hole who knows how to manipulate you into THINKING he likes you, but in the end, well u knwo how the story goes...

Charles Griffin
Charles Griffin
ID: 183878
Posts: 1184
Date: 2007-04-23 16:56
Spouse means wife or husband, not girlfriend or boyfriend. I think anyone planning to date someone's spouse better be prepared for more than the usual trouble.

Having said that, yeah I came between a husband and wife once. He was a lowlife and I rescued her and got her started on a new life, made easier by his getting killed in a drug deal gone bad.
If I haven't been there, I'm still planning on going!
If I haven't done it, I've still got time to try!

Diamond A.
Diamond A.
ID: 182758
Posts: 92
Date: 2007-04-23 17:40
Mercy Kaudresi:

i mean lets say u have great chemistry with this person yet u know they have a galfriend wld u go ahead and still date this person????????????


My heart would say yea.. but to be honest I wouldn't do it..people know if thats right or wrong.. even though theres chemistry.. don't mess up their relationship.Just think how that girl would feel..and if you were in her shoes.. Speaking for my personal life.. I've never had a boyfriend.. but OF course theres been guys I liked.. i know thats totally different than actually dating him.There can be Chemistry in different ways..You just have to be smart with every move you make.

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-04-24 06:50
thanks for all the advice it helps to know other people's views and opinions about a particular subject

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
ID: 185214
Posts: 1299
Date: 2007-04-24 20:36
Do you mean chemistry, as in you get along, share same interests and lust for eachother..
or do you mean love?
cause.. that.. is sometimes all it takes to end up seeing someone elses spouse
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-04-25 08:48
Cindy Hui:

Do you mean chemistry, as in you get along, share same interests and lust for eachother..
or do you mean love?
cause.. that.. is sometimes all it takes to end up seeing someone elses spouse

chemistry. i believe love grows but chemistry just happens. well i have only seen this guy 3times but wow all the chemistry is there. iam just so pulled u know. my heart wants him but my mind is saying noooooooooooooooo

Cindy Hui
Cindy Hui
ID: 185214
Posts: 1299
Date: 2007-04-25 11:57
Sounds alot like lust..
Howdy.I'm a 18 year old half asian from Ireland who really would love to get with an agency who can get her exposure or anything please look at my profile and get back to me :D

Diamond A.
Diamond A.
ID: 182758
Posts: 92
Date: 2007-04-25 16:40
Mercy Kaudresi:

[Cindy Hui: ...]
chemistry. i believe love grows but chemistry just happens. well i have only seen this guy 3times but wow all the chemistry is there. iam just so pulled u know. my heart wants him but my mind is saying noooooooooooooooo



ahh.. that kind of thing always happens to me.. I have no clue why. If I see An attractive male,we kind of stare at each other eyes for awhile.. I guess I have a thing with eyes..:dunno:

Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-04-27 06:25
so diamond have u ever fallen in love??????????????or its always chemistry???????????

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Date: 2007-04-30 19:44
good judgment and common sense should play a role


in every relationship if at all possible..


Why is there so many broken marriages and mental

sickness, it's because of peoples life style

Catherina Kurnia
Catherina Kurnia
ID: 167467
Posts: 511
Date: 2007-05-01 04:35
Hahahah... NEVER... I mean, if he can cheat his gf, why can't he cheat me? I mean, that kinda boy is just so evil... hurt a girl's feeling... and maybe two or more.

ANd actually, sorry to say this, but I don't understand how a girl can be 'the other girl'? Love? It's silly. I always believe love is beautiful and love is not hurt. And that's what Oprah and other wise women say. The 'other girl' is just hurting theirselves and adding more pain to her, and him, and his gf. I can't imagine if my boyf have another girl while he's still with me. I mean, we are GIRLS, girls should actually share things and have fun together, but why hurting each other?
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Mercy Kaudresi
Mercy Kaudresi
ID: 190831
Posts: 383
Date: 2007-05-01 04:56
Catherine thats a very good way of thinking. i think i like ur way of thinking

Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
ID: 182744
Posts: 1748
Date: 2007-05-05 07:05
Yep. But discretion is a must.

Messy, messy, messy getting caught. I never been caught, but seen others. Messy, messy.

There is an element of fun derived from the danger and taboo of the act. Interestingly enough, love making with someone who is someone else's partner is a very intense rush. Something about it really excites and adds to the high of love making. Forbiddden fruit, I guess.

Only real problem I have ever had is with the lady's feelings. Sometimes the married lady gets so emotionally involved that she wants the relationship to go further, to start getting serious, and start talking breakup with her husband. I have to draw the line there and call it quits.

I suppose I should be able to predict those kinds of outcomes. Sometimes,(not always) when a married woman is seeking an outside relationship it is because of problems at home. The warning flag about those types is that you get to know each other better through heart-to-heart conversations that tend to center around complaints about the boyfriend/husband. One knows that a sexual relationship conceived through such confidences is going to be an emotional morass...but gosh...she is just SO pretty and SO willing, who the heck has the moral strength of character to say: "Nah, I ain't gonna touch this really hot and sexy babe that is willing to give it up to me?"


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Carib Goodies
Carib Goodies
ID: 182744
Posts: 1748
Date: 2007-05-05 07:10
Retouching Inc:

good judgment and common sense should play a role


in every relationship if at all possible..


Why is there so many broken marriages and mental

sickness, it's because of peoples life style


I have to disagree and I have the facts to back me up.

Most divorces are not caused by infidelity. They are caused by financial stress.

I can give you the sociology behind that, but I am not certain Jurgita.com could take the bandwidth usage to send all the research and justifications.
:cantlook: Have faith that the universe will unfold as it should :cool:

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